Love v/s Hate....

Recently the two words have been conflicted upon quite a bit in my presence....which kinda led me to think bout it...
U kno..it brings back memories of ...umm...lets say 3 yrs back when d world was divided into two massive groups...people I love n people I hate..... and believe me it makes everythin a whole lot easier to jus say"....oh him? I hate him, he's a despicable creature!!!!!!!!!!"
But my dad...(who I revere by the way!!!!!!)...this is 4 u Suhasini....an insight into my mind!!!!...told me that unless u kno a person...really good i mean....u dont have any rights to be judgemental....
and d obedient daughter I am...I've started lookin at two sides of d coin...i.e...I try to find out excuses and reasons for d opposite person...no matter how big a skunk d other person is..( n believe me dey usually are!!!!)
and I fin dit fun...findin flimsy excuses for d other person...like...its not his fault, he was probably dropped on his head....so on n so forth...

Am I lonely or solitary?

it is an amazing question bcoz with the teeming multitude around u from which u carve out a definite social circle for urself....d idea of being either of d above is kinda weird....
but nevertheless when its time 2 test urself...in atleast find myself more or less like a straw in an ocean....floating w/out any aim....nad solitary...
really its true...when i need advice...either i cant communicate what i want...or people give such stupid advice that i feel i'm better off alone....
which brings me back to my question...am i solitary?...or a lonely soul?...are they d same?...is there any difference...is there any link b/w them????????? or am i just tryting to give a philosophical and dramatic sense to a kink in my brain?????